Possums,
I know that your head will be swimming at the moment but just want to put your mind at rest on one issue - level of care. My FS stressed me out about booking into an OB by week 8 after our BFP - really hard up here as options are limited as well - and I stressed big time as it was hard (ie I was in tears because I could not get into the one I wanted!). In all honesty, what they really want is for you that early is to have regular scans to monitor baby's progress - slow growth is one of the potential affects of APLS on the growing one. So as long as you can get regular scans, then I am sure that you will be fine under GP / public health system. My OB has not really done anything else - especially this early on and I think that any good care team will look after you and bubs really well.

As for questions you wished you asked your FS - give them a call - or ring their reception and ask for them to call you when they can- I dont see why you have to wait for answers! Will all pay good money for their services!

Shared your story with DH today on a long drive, and we are both wishing you well!

FG