Girl or Boy? - I think also that I really want a girl as I have a DS already. I know that we will only have 2 children (if we are lucky enough to be blessed with a #2) as I can't afford another, so if we get a boy that will be it. I will totally love DS #2 (if that is the way things go) just as much and I know that DS #1 would be so, so happy to have a baby brother. I guess now that we are trying I am anxious that if I do get pregnant, and it is a DS, it officially means that I will not get my DD. Before starting to try for #2 I could always say to myself you still have another chance to get your DD.... I know that sounds silly... but it is how I feel.
Coral - its not silly at all, I feel exactly the same. I have a DS and would dearly love a DD next time, but I think being 'fertility challenged' makes you less fussy too, I'll take what I can get hehehee, but if I do have another DS although I'll be delighted, I will always have a want for a DD. We are only having two also, so our next baby (should we get lucky) will complete our family

We'll we had our appt today - I'm off for the ovarian reserve test once my AF arrives, and DH will have a sperm analysis again (same as last time) but 3 years on we need to see where we are at, and then we have a follow up appt early August to discuss that and I guess book on for a Fresh cycle if we are ready!