Hi, as the male component of a couple that's going though IVF (7 cycles already), all I can say is.....VENT !

Every failed cycle breaks my heart, but I know it breaks my wife's heart even more, so even though I can't bare to see her crying, I know its my duty as a husband to support her as much as I can.

This is the same. She might be her sister, but YOU are his WIFE ! and he needs to understand that you need to vent in order to release some of your anxiety.

On the other hand, life is unfair sometimes (I guess if you're reading this forum chances are that you feel life's been unfair to you) but you got to make the most out of it. Comparing your fortune / kids / house / car / health / etc to others will never result in anything positive.

Focus on what you want to achieve and stay positive and forget about everyone else in the planet.

Best wishes for you

cheers