Big hugs to you

It's so frustrating trying to be happy when you know you can't be...I've been there before too - not the triplets, but people 'accidently' falling pg around me and first time ivf'ers and iui'ers getting the success that I wasn't at the time. I know it's hard. They all knew I was TTC for while...so they did understand why I wasn't overly excited for them like I should have been. I found I just asked lots of questions - like when due, names, gender, will they find out etc, that way I didn't have time to think about me - I was too busy firing lots of questions at them and listening to their reponses. Then when i left - as soon as I was away from sight, cried my eyes out all the way home.

Could you start the congratulating off by sending a card...that way it could buy you a little more time to deal with the your feelings and have enough questions to last you til you get back in the car .

The world just doesn't seem fair sometimes.

I hope you get your BFP soon.