[QUOTE=Persephone1;1961076] Is there something wrong with us if we don't have a crazy sex life at this point in our relationship?
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My answer is No, there is nothing wrong with your relationship if you don't always have a crazy hot sex life and everytime you see each other you want to tear each other's clothes off. I hate to stereotype people, so why should we do the same to sex life? ie. once a week, twice a month etc . Do it whenever you feel like it, please don't tell me how many is too many or to less as far as both of you are happy with it, that is.

DH and I have a great loving affectionate relationship and I have to say it doesn't build on sex, it's never been a priority for us. We might have some action twice a week but sometimes can go without for 2-3 weeks...I think every couple's relationship is different...do what works for you and don't feel guilty because of National figures says ' you should have sex 3 times a week', that's my point.

I totally get it after LTTTC with a stressful job, it feels hard to place this 'DTD' stuff, maybe make a bit more effort over the weekend when work is not over your head and you and DH can do some fun stuff, even at 2am....:-)