Thanks Ladies, your support is much appreciated - especially those who have been LTTTC. DH and I have had a few chats about it, and unfortunately he often jokes about it - I've had to point out that his joking is actually a bit hurtful and I'd rather we be kind to each other around the sex stuff.

I saw an episode of the Simpsons last night and something Marge said was completely hilarious (had me in stitches!) but was also rather apt. Homer had decorated the bedroom with candles and pretty drapes, and when Marge came in she said "Oh, Homey, you remembered that I like romance!" I told DH he could try the same thing now and again (although I note that Homer had stapled his fat to his back, so perhaps not).

Thanks again girls.