Pfffttt to your mum Trace. I now know how fric$en hard it is working fulltime and being a mummy. Just because you work fulltime does not mean you are any less of a mother then your sister. If she chooses to stay home then complains then thats her problem. I'm sorry but I make no apologies for our choices, so why should you feel bad for yours. Your kids still know who their mummy is and totally love and adore you so why feel bad that your just providing a better life financially for them. Being a mummy is all instinct and you know you'll have no probs being home with Zyon and Indah. :nana: to your mum!!