Thanks Kirsty!!!

Yeah I have not felt bad, as I know I earn alot more than Dh & if I wasnt working we'd have to sell house, car & bike & go back to renting & be trying to make ends meet, we'd be not as happy as we are now (I know that)..

I just wondered where the heck it had come from & why would she say that when she worked part time with her kids & often sleep overs with her kids on Friday nights (as a Private nanny)..

Now she sits at home day in day out as they dont ahve spare cash for her to do anyting & she isnt REALLY looking for workn & I just wonder if she's maybe got some green eyed monster on her shoulder!

Dh & I talked about it alst night & we are happy where we are & the kids are both happy & loved & cared for & I have the luxury of leaving work at the drop of a hat!!! If my kids need me!!!

Thanks Hun!!!! I know your right!