DH is having the snip when we are sure we have finished - I would like the bigger family, but a man is fine within a few hours, a woman needs days to recover. Plus if he's stopping me having more children with him then he isn't going to have any with anyone else!

Women have years of chemicals, pregnancies, childbirth, breastfeeding... and a man won't even have a snip? BTW, I want to be there and I want to give my consent while DH isn't aware of it and has had a hand up his backside twisting around for a bit, making him have trouble with controlling poos for a few weeks (no control at all for at least 4 days, if not a week). Payback for Lieb's birth, I didn't want to be sliced up down there but he was fine for it to happen to me. Doubt it will happen, but would be nice!