Tubal Reversals # 11

**Mumof8** · November 29th, 2007, 11:59 AM

PMSL- oh Maz that was funny to read but very true. Bonk a day keeps AF away

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Dont think i'll be finding out cause i dont want to be disappointed for the next 22wks.
Better if i wait then they can hand me a baby and a cant get disappointed at that.
Sounds pretty selfish doesnt it but I really really want a girl but I just keep thinking its a boy!

**maz** · November 29th, 2007, 12:42 PM

Em - i hear you honey and i dont blame you. When we went for our 19 week scan the guy said - oh id say its a boy and I jsut started to cry.I know I have Vy but having a child with autisum and a boy, give me a higher chanch of having another boy with autisum...glad I went to my 22 week scan

btu havent told the inlaws or many people IRL
Can I trade inmy smoo yet???? It hurts today

**onemore** · November 30th, 2007, 10:31 AM

Hi girls,

sad to tell you all we lost our bub this week.
Went to have the 9 week scan on Tuesday only to be told no heartbeat, we are devistated.
Had D&C Wednesday night at 11:45, was at hospital from 9am so was a long sad day. We do believe that everything happens for a reason so are trying to get on with things and hopefuly in a few months will be able to give good news again.

Good to hear all is going well with you guys.

Take care and will chat soon

Kristy

**storm** · November 30th, 2007, 08:20 PM

OMG onemore, I am so so sorry, my heart goes out to you & your family -xx-

**maz** · December 1st, 2007, 07:38 AM

Kristy honey - i am so sorry, I wish I could give you a hug right now. I hope that 'this' time (oh i hate the sound of that) goes very quickly and that you have another little darling growing in your tummy very soon.

**kiya** · December 2nd, 2007, 12:00 PM

Hi Girls, Tyring to catch up on all the posts. Onemore, sorry to hear about your loss, things always happen for a reason, it is never easy to do with, but your special time will come. Em, i know all about having space, living on an acreage, i could never go back to living in the city, and now i want more space, as 3acres is just not enough space for me. I've been busy at work and feeling pretty sonkered to say the least. Well time to go and hang out the washing. Cheers kiya

**onemore** · December 6th, 2007, 08:32 AM

Hey girls, thanks for the kind words. It`s hard to beleive it`s been a week since getting out of hospital, time just goes so fast. I am suprised how well I have adjusted to the whole misscarige thing, I think going through the blocked tubes episode really helped me deal with loosing this little one, I wanted it so bad and not knowing I had lost it untill the scan hit me for a 6. I feel pretty good about it all untill I see someone that does`nt know I lost it and asks me how I`m going or I`ve been looking at the misscarige posts and its just so sad that so many women have to go through this.
Anyway nice to know you girls are here to give all of us as a group the encouraging, sympathetic or happy words we need to hear just at the right time.
Thankyou

Kristy

**maz** · December 6th, 2007, 09:41 AM

Kristy - you make sure that you make Christmas extra special honey

have a real 'party', relax and just enjoy this month. YOu deserve it.
Kiya - what kind of work do you do matie????
Hello other chickies - hope is all in the world of TTC
Jed and I have decided that we defently dont want any more children after this week. Saddens me but in the same token I dont think my body could handle another pg. I was put in hospital with high BP of 160/100 and contractions monday. Lucky BP went down and contractions stopped and I went home. OB thinks i'LL BE LUCKY OT LAST UNTIL nEW yEARS...BLAH BLAH BLAH. soory stupid cap locks!!!!
We're taking oen day at a time atm and honestly, im not even stressed or anything so cant understand the high BP!!
Hope all is well with everyone else.

**luvchildren** · December 6th, 2007, 11:54 AM

onemore, so sorry for you, I feel you. I too have suffered 5 miscarriages and the D+C is devestating. Though we never understand, it still hurts. I hope that you have a lovely christmas.
em, hows moving going? and chrissy shopping?
maz, so exciting and scary- i hope that the ultrasonographer was wrong- and you have a girl1 That is a bit odd about you bp, but it probably rose because of the contractions? Do you think you will last?
storm, Where are you?

**maz** · December 6th, 2007, 12:22 PM

its pink honey...just not advertising it to much

**storm** · December 6th, 2007, 03:36 PM

I'm here Darl, still really bummed about AF, how stupid is that? I don't know why I still feel this way, I feel like I'm never gonna get 2 pink lines ever again. Woe is me atm, so not posting in here too much.

**Mumof8** · December 7th, 2007, 10:28 AM

Hey girls back online after telstra stuffing me around but all is well now.
Missed you guys heaps. Im all moved and unpacked and glad its over.
My hands and feet are so bloody swollen and my feet just ache.
Onemore... Im so so sorry for the hand you have been delt. Its just
bloody terrible and not fair.

**kiya** · December 8th, 2007, 08:29 PM

Hey Maz,
I work for a farming company in there production shed. I sort out beans (green, flat & butter beans). I am called a "beanie". Not a glamourous job by any means, and the hours and long and hard, but it helps pay the bills. We also do corn (which Em used to do for the same company, and they are called "strippers", broccoli and wom bok. Tomorrow will be day 7 in a row, and won;t be finished until at the moment till Tuesday, but that could change at the drop of a hat. My hubby works for Boeing at the RAAF base doing government contracts, and he loves it. Well i have not long got home from work, so i am going to have a nice glass of wine and some tasty jacks and relax and watch the next storm roll in in from Mulgowie. Cheers kiya

**maz** · December 8th, 2007, 09:15 PM

When I lived in Bundaberg I worked in the packing sheds to hon. I use to grade and pack, zuchinis, tomatoes, capsicums, smal cherry tomatoes and melons. I hated getting the melons out of the cool room, they use to stink so much! BLAH. Then when I moved down here I got into the sorting sheds doing apples and pears. I worked at the Ardmona / SPC cannery for 4 years ina row until I did my back and couldnt stand for the hours on end. God it was good money to.
Starting to get to the to tired stage now. I went grociery shoping this morning then tried doing some stuff aroundt he house and am so over tired its not funny.

**Mumof8** · December 9th, 2007, 10:45 AM

Oh god not the bloody CORN shep. Standing on a production line stripping corn for 9hrs
flat out when your 8mths pregnant. That was hard work. I used to eat, work, and dream CORN!

**kiya** · December 10th, 2007, 11:04 AM

I know the feeling well. I have been doing the beans and corn for several years now and i still dream about the darn stuff. I'm not going to work today, last night we had to hand load the beans on to the belt because the hopper belt was broken. I kept hitting my hand against the big blue chep bins and now my right hand and knuckle is swollen. Blah, well at least i get a good pay this week, worked 8 days straight. YIPPEE. Cheers kiya