I just got back from the doctor's and I didn't think it was possible, but now I feel even worse. I went in and he said 'the answer to your question is yes'. He told me to get another BT to check on HCG levels, and I have a form for another one for a week's time if I am still not bleeding, and I may have to get a scan done to see if there are any 'products of conception' still there, and then maybe a D & C. I said I really didn't want to go there. I tried asking him why this is happening and what I should do now, what all my hormone levels were, etc, and he said he didn't know and could refer me to genetic counselling, but there would be a long wait, and that he wasn't going to answer my questions because 'this is a fit-in appointment and I don't want my schedule to be out all day'.
I told him I am very sorry I took up his time and will go elsewhere next time and slammed the door on my way out. I couldn't even drive home I was crying so much and now I don't know what to do.
I had the BT and have to phone for the results later today, but the last thing I want to do is speak to that ***** again. I can't believe someone can be so horrible in what is such an awful situation. Now I don't know what to do, what the answers are and where we go from here.
I just can't stop crying and I can't get through to DH.
My goodness what a #@$%$ (read in any really obscentity you like) I can't believe he could be so insensitive. Find a new doctor maybe a woman, although I have to say during my 1st miscarriage my female GP asked what I was going to do about contraception afterwards and this was at 9wks when I had JUST started bleeding a little and she hadn't even got blood test results back!! (I just burst into tears)
Please take care of yourself, have you got someone to look after you and give you lots of hugs?
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