Max, you are not heartless hun... guilt is such a wasted emotion. Not knowing you were pregnant in the first place means that the shock finding out that you were pregnant at the same time as the shock of a m/c must be a really confusing thing. Take care sweets:hugs:
Maz - Heartless is a word that doesn't even enter my mind when I think of you honey. I think you are a very compassionate & caring & loving & understanding person.
Hi Maz,
i have just read your post and I want to say I don't think your heartless at all, and my thoughts are with you. In regards to your comment ' I was told I had a 'complete' abortion (WHAT THE)'. In Jan when I was having a m/c I went to see a Dr as I wasn't sure at the time, and told me to go home as I was having an abortion. This comment made feel like absolute s#*t, As if I wasn't feeling bad enought already. I made a complaint about it, and was told that abortion is the 'technical term' for a m/c. It didn't make me feel any better though.
I hope you are getting along OK
Cheers
B-J
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