I cant thank you girls enough for all your kind words. Jed and I have sat down (last night actually) and had a really good chat about everything. Before the m/c Jed was going to get the snip by hock or by crock. We have now decided not to and to wait and see if we are really 'finished' having any more babies. Im just going to go on the pill for time being and we said we'll see how we feel by the end of next year. I still dont feel sadened about what happened but is has quiet obviously effected us both more than we expected it too. Who knows we may end up with a footy team yet. lol.
So for now, we're looking towards getting the family happy and organised and you never know, Vyolett may end uyp being a big sister yet.
thanks so much again everyone, big warm fuzzy hugs and may I be the first to wish you all a merry christmas.
xxmaz