Wheatie,

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I'm thinking of you and sending you big cyber hugs.

I've suffered 2 m/c's myself and I know just how painful this time is for you right now. I suffered a missed m/c with my first, and a natural m/c with my 2nd and you really don't think that life could be any crueler than suffering a m/c.

As many of the others have said, make sure that you take the time to grieve for your little one. It's such a hard road to travel and it will be difficult for a long time, but in time, you somehow learn to cope.... it's not easy, but you do find a way. When you feel ready, you might even like to think about a special way to remember your little one. I bought a special plant, wrote a poem and a special letter and bought some special angel christmas decorations for our christmas tree so that they are both remembered as part of our family each year. I also put the poem and letter in a special keepsake box together with a little teddy bear that I had bought. These things really helped me come to terms with what had happened. These are just some suggestions, and you should do something if and when you feel up to it, and something you feel comfortable with.

Thinking of you Wheatie....