Thank you everyone from the bottom of my heart.
It has been so wonderful to see your responses, you have all gathered around me when I needed it most.
Spoke to Dr yesterday, he is wonderful and made me feel a bit better. It just seems to be "one of those things", natural selection and all that. I was not very confident about this pg, but I could not put my finger on why.
I am booked in for D & C this afternoon, I think I'm happier to do it this way as it seems my body wants to hang on. I don't think I could bear it to happen on its own, that would just be too much.
Poor DD very upset, and DS been up all night, the bugger. DP has been great too, and I have been fighting my natural tendency to close up and run off, and talked to him alot which really has helped.
Thank you again, hope this surgery isn't too icky. I'm going to have a bath and cover myself in my stash of bodyshop goodies to ward off hospital smells.

Kisses,
Lulu