Hi,
I went through a similar situation. My dear friend avoided my calls after my mc. I messaged her, left messages on her answering machine etc. none returned.
a week later she called me to tell me she was pg. few weeks later (while I was still recovering from my loss) she started to complain about her pregnancy. she went on and on talking about the fact she couldn't sleep or eat anything and that she remembered then why she hated to be pg... My answer was quite direct: "you should be thankfull that your baby's heart is beating, mine as you know stopped".
She hasn't been a friend since and I can't say I miss her. we have social calls and gathering (our hubbies are good friends) but even her husband is over her. She had a "complaining pg", couldn't stop nagging him and complain about anything.
she is due soon, and yes I will go to see her in hospital with pressie for the newborn, but it's not a close friendship, nor it will ever be again.
Maybe I am harsh, but she have been so tactless!
xxx