After speaking to the OB again tonight I gave her the low down on the reports and she said it was ok to not want another scan. Particularly because after the first scan a nurse INSISTED it was a failed pregnancy and told us to decide what to do- then half an hour later the baby was great now 11 days on again no hb. As horrible as it is I couldn't handle another "it's ok" this would be a fear pregnancy. I asked her what the odds are of the scan being wrong (I had both internal and external and it was flat line) she said it was unlikely. Particularly based on size.

I asked her for a d & c. And considering my mental state and how the pregnancy has been she thought it was best and booked me for tomorrow but now I feel selfish. I am in the middle of exams and I don't want the pain and I didn't want to wait.

But now that I think about it - maybe I should let nature take its course. God it's horrible to know that a little life (whose heart did beat) is going to be rubbish - medical or other and so maybe although it wasn't a "baby" medically It would be better to pass the way it needs to when my body is ready to let go I'll know my mind can too.

Was the d & c a mistake?? What did you do??

I've had 1 v birth and 2 d & c laps (for pco) since 2006. Should I be risking another dilation??

TIA

Ps. I'm so thankful for my dd right now - I bet she hasn't felt this loved in awhile with uni I let my quality time slip.


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