Tegan,

Like Melinda said, you never really get over it completely but it does get easier, and it does hurt less with time. When I had my second m/c all the hurt, guilt and agony of the first one was as strong as if it had just happened yesterday not years before.

With time you wont feel guilty and believe me unless you were skulling bottles of gin in a boiling hot bath while chain smoking and doing drugs you have nothing to feel guilty for. M/c is just one of those unfortunate things that some of us have to suffer but it does get better, it just takes time. Please don't feel guilty.. you did nothing wrong... there is not something wrong with you... your little one just wasn't meant to be here all that long.

For the short time your little one was here you loved them with all your heart and they knew that so while you might not have got to hold your precious baby this time believe me when I tell you s/he knew she had a mummy who loved him/her very much.

Sending you all the best wishes and sticky vibes as you try for #3... may the wait be short and the happiness be long.