Oh Naomi, I am so sorry to hear your news. I really feel for you.

You sound so distressed. I wish there was something I could do to help you.

I've had 3 m/c's myself - 2 before Jacob was conceived, and 1 just a few weeks ago. So take my situation as an example of the fact that you CAN have a healthy baby following 2 m/c - I did. I don't think I believed it would happen until he was actually born, but he is here, and healthy and happy.

You're not useless Naomi, and you've done nothing wrong. This is NOT your fault. I can't emphasise that enough. And just because your little angels aren't physically here with you, doesn't mean you're not a Mummy. You ARE a Mummy. You are a Mummy to 2 very special little angels.

I really think you should sit down and tell Rick what is going on. Perhaps you could show him this thread (or print it out) so he knows why you didn't tell him straight away. Communication in a relationship, particularly during these hard times is essential, and you need his love and support.

Thinking of you Naomi........