Oh hun, I am so so sorry you are going through this. I know it's a terrible time, and it feels awful to question your body, as well as wonder why it has to happen . Take it easy, and be kind to yourself
I'm so very sorry for your loss and want to send you big hugs. I was very moved by what you wrote. I hope that you are surrounded by love and gentleness right now. Thinking of you.
Thanks for all of your support. I'm having difficulty understanding why some immediate family members haven't even called or texted us at all. I totally understand that they don't know what to say, but saying nothing has left us feeling very alone and unsupported. I recently had an experience when a friend of mine had suffered a loss while I was pregnant. I knew that being around me or talking to me might have been painful for her, but I couldn't just pretend she didn't exsist, that she didn't matter to me. Every few days I just sent her a text saying "I'm thinking of you, I'm here". How hard is that?
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