Tammy,

I'm so sorry to hear about your m/c. It's such an awful thing for anyone to have to go through. I really don't believe that it matters whether it was planned or not - the fact is that from the moment you knew you were PG you loved your little one and created hopes and dreams for him/her!

It can be difficult when you are surrounded by people who haven't experienced a m/c and who are unsure of what to say or do to support you at this time. It can feel very isolating and lonely. Rest assured that you are not going insane - the feelings you are experiencing really are totally normal, as awful as they are and as terrible as you feel. You grieve the loss of your little one just as you would grieve the loss of any other family member, but it can be harder for those around you to relate to that.

I hope that you'll come back to share how you are feeling so that we can try and support you through this difficult time.

Thinking of you....