Huge :hugs: Tammy

It can be so hard to find support when the people you love have not experienced the same hardships. Like Tootie said it makes no difference if the pregnancy was planned or not, the hurthing is the same.

When we suffered our m/c I know I took it a lot harder in some ways than even my DH, because as the person carrying the child you feel an immediate connection that other people often just can't relate to.

Please know that your feelings are all normal, and as Michelle said it really does get easier to live with over time. There will never be a time you forget that special little person who shared themselves with you, but the pain does dull in a sense.

I hope you drop back in to chat some more. Everyone in here is really supportive and understands where you are at.

Take care,