Dear Tammy and Beck;

Thank you for sharing your stories with us. It reminded me of how hard it is to go through the physical side of things.

Feel free to vent whenever you need to. I found these girls to be a wonderful support network, because they've all been through the trauma of a m/c.

The emotional side is very difficult for those who haven't been through it. I know that most of my mother's friends, and a lot of my friends who haven't experienced m/c, were saying to me "just get over it". Which is so insensitive, it often made me feel worse.

One of the most important things (IMHO) is to be able to talk about how you feel, whenever you need to do so. And whether that is talking to someone in person, or chatting here, doesn't matter. It all helps.

I remember crying for days on end, and couldn't handle friends who were pg, and having a lot of trouble dealing with my son. It was a tough time, but with the support of friends and some family, we got through it.

We're all here if you need help or support.

Best wishes.