Freya, You are a very kind friend to help your friend out, even though it must be so extremely painful for you. Im not sure I could have done that, especially because (as you know) the pain of recurrent m/c is so unbelievably raw at times.

You really do lose faith in your body to carry a baby to term and knowing that you may never have another one is a very hard thing to deal with, so hearing 'think positive' or 'you'll be fine' makes you want to scream. I have a friend who told me I should just be grateful for my two boys and move on, because that is what she is doing. Apparently, her little boy and girl make her feel so complete, so she doesnt need to have a third . I wanted to scream 'but you only ever wanted two kids and you got exactly what you wanted. Of course its easy for you to move on!!!!

Sorry if Ive made this about me, but I wanted to you to understand that I know what you are going through.

Alison - I hope you had good news today!