thanks tegam.

about an hour after i rang my ob, they rang back to say that if i change my mind overnight, then i can still go in tomorrow morning as they have room.

we've had similar stories, so thankyou for sharing. my dh is thinking more to wait the week, but is leaving it up to me.

can you tell me why it's better for ttc? i'm very confused with all the info out there. and you're feelings of wishing you'd waited?

if it's too personal, i understand, but i am just so confused at the moment. i want to let my body do it's job but i don't know that i can handle the waiting, but at the same time a d&c feels so final and i feel i'd like to hang onto bubs for as long as i can - even though i know it's gone.

such a mix of emotions!