Hi Kiwigigirl, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I too found out at my 12 week scan that my baby had no heartbeat. I was able to have a D&C that same day and looking back now it still feels surreal. I'm sure it will be a difficult wait for you this week end and I hope you have some amazing people around you to help you through it.
This all happened to me in January and I can honestly say that time does help and you will start to feel better slowly. You may not be ready to hear that yet, but I just wanted you to know that there are other people who have been in your situation and have come through it. I still think about my baby and being pregnant everyday but I am now finally feeling hopeful that we will be pregnant again soon. It has taken sometime to get here and I hope you can be kind to yourself so you can grieve and heal.
I will be thinking of you this week end and sending lots of warm wishes your way.
BettyBlue