Hi Smegs,

I was just wondering how you u r doin this evening? I am thinking of u and hoping that whichever decision u make, the m/c process is quick, and not too painful for you. Please let us know tomorrow how u go with the p/call to your dr....just remember, if he tells you that miscarrying 'naturally' at home is easier and less painful, don't believe him! There are plenty of women on this forum that will tell u otherwise. Not to say that a D&C is any better....both are horrendous experiences. So I guess the point is, just go with what is important for YOU and what u r comfortable with, rather than what u think would be quicker and less painful b/c as I said earlier, that part is unpredictable whichever way u decide. Take care and be strong....we're here to help you pick up the pieces after it all happens.....