Hi Paras - I am doing okay, I have spent most of the day crying, feeling angry, feeling sad...I think it is good to get it all out though. It has only really hit me today I think. I will talk to the doc tomorrow. I am a little worried that this might drag out for weeks, but like you said it doesnt seem that either one (D&C or natural) is the easier option. I was thinking of taking some time off work as well, I am woried about it happening when I am not at home. But if it doesn't happen for a few weeks, I am not sure if that is a good idea either.

Thanks everyone for the wishes and the advice, it really does help to hear from people who have already been through this.