I know exactly what u mean re. waiting at home for it to happen....when I was told to go home & wait to miscarry, I was so petrified of how & when it would happen that I did not leave the house for 2 weeks! In the end it didn't happen at all! So, that's why I opted for the D&C....ur in such a difficult situation I know....but it seems like maybe you would rather have the D&C for peace of mind? I totally understand that....if your dr doesn't seem supportive, go elsewhere. U need someone who will help you thru this not confuse you even more....

U will eventually physically recover (it took me a good 2 weeks to get around w/o any pain). As for the emotional recovery, well that's a lifetime process. The crying & sadness u felt today is so normal and so okay! I'm glad you're feeling it b/c keeping your feelings inside makes it worse in the long run....It was 4 wks today that I found out our baby had passed, so today was pretty miserable for me too....just when I thought I was beginning to cope....this forum really helped me at the beginning of all this....if you need to talk on a more personal level we can arrange for that too.....