Dusty, to you. I found the same thing happened after my m/c as well, I still have family members that have not acknowledged our loss I found it very difficult to deal with for quite some time too and TBH I am still quite bitter about it I wish I could change my feelings but I can't.

I really do believe that is is not so much because you have not experienced motherhood, but because these people have not experienced m/c, KWIM? They simply don't understand the pain associated with it (not to mention LTTTC in your case as well). They ignore it because they don't know what to say, or they are afraid of saying the wrong thing to you and upsetting you more.

I wish there was something I could say to you that would help now But passing of time does help, I can now look these people in the eye and not feel such total anger with them, but on the other hand I will never forget that they ignored my pain either

Take care of yourselves hun xo