I haven't read the other two responses so pardon me for that...

Dusty darling heart...

This is not about those people being parents to Earth babies. It is about lots of things.
The biggest one is we live in a society unable to deal with death. Death is a dirty word, one we shy away from. We shun it (as a society). People find it easy to brush off a miscarriage as "wasn't meant to be" or "only a little bit pregnant".

When a baby enters your womb - your sacred chalice - that baby lives it's footprints on your soul. He/she was alive - you saw her/him on that screen, you watched in amazement as that flicker of a heartbeat lit up your own heart.

Sadly some people don't have whole hearts - they are afraid of hearing, experiencing or pondering your pain. They don't have enough room or enough understanding in their own hearts.

Your babies they grew your heart bigger - if there is a brightness in this story it is that that is their gift.

TTC for so long is painful - again we as a society shy away from others pain. It's all too hard - so they say nothing.

I wish I could say something really profound - but all I know is that this is truly hard, it sucks and I am not able to take that away from you. If I could I would...

We are all here for you to lean upon - we will face the fire with you and not shrink away from it... Because in different ways we all understand...