Oh Dusty . It is not because you haven't experienced motherhood fully yet that people don't say anything, or acknowledge your loss. It makes no difference if you already have children or not, people just don't know what to say. People don't want to bring it up with you in case it upsets you. People haven't been through it themselves and have no idea how much it hurts to lose a bub, how much it hurts to have to give up your hopes and dreams. They think it is easy to move on.

I had my second loss in August of last year, it was a very early loss, but it hurt more than my first loss did at 6 weeks. I really appreciated it when the few people I told talked about it with me and acknowledged my feelings. I was able to do the same for a very good friend who also had a loss in January because I knew how she would be feeling and that it is important to talk about it.

I guess that's what sets you apart from others Dusty, you have been there and you know what others that are going through it need. May you come across some other lovely women who can give you the understanding and acknowledgment you need .