Hi BJRose
life isn't fair sometimes. I lost a baby 5 weeks ago when I terminated due to Trisomy 21 and bleak outlook for baby. At the time I was involved in another pregnancy website and met a girl who was a week ahead of me. We became quite good friends over email and the website and she was hit hard when my news came. Although she is 19 years younger than me she has been so supportive and sweet and she asked me how I felt about her and her pregnancy now. I said I felt the same way, that I was happy for her and I wanted her to continue telling me about it, but deep down, I do get pangs of jealousy when I hear how wonderfully it is all going for her. At times I wonder if her happiness will be shattered like mine was - out of the blue. I have 3 children already, and even when pregnant with them, I never took a day of the pregnancy for granted. It might help to ask her truly how she feels about details of your pregnancy but get her to be honest. You sound like a wonderful friend. When people found out my news, they would come around and just hug me and cry with me, but there was one girl who I am really good friends with who is always running over here when she has problems who stayed away and just texted me her one time only support, and still hasn't just come around, that I feel our friendship will suffer for it. She feels bad because she didn't come around and I really felt her absence. I am not sure our friendship will ever be the same. And another friend of mine has called me every week, just for a chat and she isn't afraid to ask questions. As a result, I feel much closer to her because she has bothered to ask, and bothered to listen and also talk about day to day stuff which was great.
Anyway I hope that helps and I wish you and your friend all the best