One of my mates just had to have a D&C at 12 weeks. I feel so horrible for her. She has a 2yo DS & had a lot of trouble getting pregnant with him. She was in the middle of doing the hormone/fertility needle things (Sorry, don't know much about this) when she had a D&C & finally got preggers with him & put it down to the D&C. This time she tried by herself for a few months saying that maybe she should organise another D&C & see if that helps. Well she didn't need to. She fell all by herself & being such a small town we were all so excited & happy for her. Then I got to DD's school this morning to find out she went for her ultra sound which she's been excited about for 3 weeks now to find out that the baby had no heart beat. She was all by herself in there.
It's not fair. I know there are alot of people in here who've been through the same thing & more, but I just feel so horrible for her. Especially since I'm 10 weeks ahead of where she would be. I don't know how she'll feel watching me go through pregnancy & have my baby. I had tears in my eyes when I found out - then reminded myself that I was at a primary school. Not the best place to get carried away with my pregnancy emotions!
Why is life so cruel? & only to the nicest people.