OMG Tiggy, what a rought trot you and you DH have had. How very rude of the Dr's and nurses to say that it was your fault, if htat were the case then it is just as much their faults if not more as they are the medical professionals and shouldn't have let it go that far. Poo to them.

I hope that your new baby comes into the world with out any problems at all, afterall, it's the very least you guys and bub deserve.

Take care
Trish