Devil's advocate here, but could it be that they don't know just how prem that is? Not everyone knows that the average pregnancy is 40w, so maybe they thought the bub was close to term anyway? Same with the weight, some people might not twig just how tiny that is...

But if they do know, poo to them! I know how much my mum struggled having a 34-weeker, never mind smaller...


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