Hi everyone hope you enjoyed you Premmie Day. I spent it by myself with ava and will certainly endeavour to recruit some new mums next year. Hope you are all well on the other side with the floods etc...
As you know from my last posts I was feeling rather down and it got even worse!
A family member of mine sent me a rather degrading e-mail and I have vowed not to talk to them until I get a written apology.

let's just say he questioned things about my life and my mothering, accusing me of being paranoid about baby's health. Told me I should put her into daycare F/T as my life needed changing. in that i mean he thinks I sit on my backside all day! LOL.

The whole Email thing made me think that I needed to defer my studies for a year and really enjoy my children and family a bit more.

i ask you all... if your baby(and maybe they do)have BPD or compromised lung function would you just stick them in large daycares if you were not working? I am by no means saying that you shouldn't but for me it is not an option until she is a little stronger.
This person also implied that i had used my parents up.

Well thats my vent.....all else is good....except...baby is having a hard time sleeping...i amm sooo tired

Helena