carrie- Oh no Kyla! i suppose these type things happen but even knowing that wouldnt prepare you for when it actually happens. i hope her finger is ok and mends quickly by itself
Helena- ditto to what everyone else said. i can't beleive your sister approved the email after what she has been through herself, does not make sence at all. And this is YOUR child not his child so why should he have the right to stick his nose in how you look after your daughter. Ava was an extremley premmie baby and you have every right to protect her health how ever you want. Was he involved around the time she was born? did he go and visit at the hospital? I understand it must be extremley upsetting for you but your main priority is Ava and her health. My bro doesnt have much to do with Nixon these days because of my Biatch SIL who has banned him from going to any family functions/ events because she has the pettiest problem with my father dating back from Nov last yr. They are also my neices god parents and same deal never see her.
My point i suppose is even though family is family and you expect them to support and comfort you, sometimes it doesnt work out like that but you need to just worry about you, your daughter & your husband over ridiculous and obsurd behaviour.