Kelly, I'm so sorry it was a hard day for you . I thought it might be, because of what you've told me about your close friends. Not that they're horrible or anything!!! Just that they haven't been there, so they don't really *get* it. I know you're desperate to catch up with everyone etc while you're in Perth, but make sure you take plenty of time for yourself too..........it will be hard when you get back here .

Michelle, go easy hun, we all know the next few weeks are going to be really tough. It's okay to vacillate . We will all be here as a sounding board, with absolutely no judgement. As others have said, this is an extremely personal decision......and one that you will likely not have to make beyond theory Thinking of you lots xoxo