I think we all need some huge in here right now. I am thinking of you all and what you are all going through. I hate that such lovely women have to go through so much when you deserve so very much better.

Deb - BOL for today hun, I hope all goes well. I can hardly imagine how much this must be hurting. I am confident though that DD14 WILL come back. She will see FWOTY for what he is eventually, but is probably very confused and hurt right now. You are a wonderful mum and she will remember that. And your other littlies sound like absolute gems.

laney - huge huge hun, things must be so hard right now. We are all thinking of you. Keep talking to us sweetie.

BW - I am so sorry to hear how awful you are feeling right now. However I am glad that you will get to see your gorgeous little boy more often and I am sure he will love it too!

mako - how are you doing hun?

Lisa - it is lovely to hear how precious your baby girl is. The smiles just melt your heart!! I also need to lose some weight but am finding it very hard while BFing. I don't want my milk affected, but I would like to lose a few kilos. I have started exercising but I also need to look at how much I eat! The trouble is that I am hungry all the time.

Michelle - you are the most amazing person. I have no idea how you are even holding it together but you also have the strength to come in here and read our posts and scold us for feeling bad for you! I am in awe hun. You are such a strong woman. I wish I was closer and could help out, even just sit with you in the evenings (as I know that is the time when I miss DH the most when he is away), and being so pregnant must make even the most mundane things so very hard.

Kelly - glad to hear that your pregnancy is going so well. I hope you start to feel some movement soon, and yay on the boobs!!! I feel the same way when I am preggers or BFing.

Hi to everyone else.

I am feeling down too as my sis and her partner of nearly 7 years have just broken up. She is devastated. They had just built a house together and she was wanting to have babies soon, so she feels that her life as she knew it is over completely. Apparently she is hysterical and sobbing constantly. She won't even talk to me because it hurts too much to talk. I hate living away from home at times like these. I just want to hug her and let her stay with us as long as she likes but I feel so helpless over here. I can't stand her hurting so much.