WILLOW _ Is this school mummy super-hot & super-good looking to be able to pass judgements like that in the first place? I would def be seeing red flags as well, maybe next time she passes a remark about the mother 'letting herself go', you could say something like 'don't we all?' because quite honestly, don't we all? LOL. As with the thing about the mummy getting pregnant & her saying she is too ugly to be having sex, that is just downright rude & I have no comeback for that one. Does V really like the child? Is the child nice? It's a really tough one, like you said, it's just a school friend, she doesn't need to be your next best friend, but if the kids are playing happily & she doesn't give you the red flag ALL the time, I'd probably just roll with it for a while longer. Does this make any sense?