I have tried all suggestions here and nothing is working. She is getting worse.

No matter who i talkto about this,no one believe me how bad it is. They say its just aphase, she is just being a 4 year old etc etc. Well im sorry but i have never seen a 4 year old act like she is. This is not normal!

It's now starting from when DH gets home until he goes to bed. And all day on the weekends. Today she is really bad.

She has been doing things she knows are naughty and syaing 'look what i just did' acting all proud. If i tell her to stop or i say no,she will repeat what i say.

DH is to the point of giving up and just ignoring her because he gives her huge amount of attention and she still acts like this. She actually worse when he does give her attention.

We figure it is probably because of the new baby. But we cannot put up with this behavour until February! I am to the point of tears most days because she will not listen. She will not take any form of punishment. She will not stay in time out. She sees no consiquence. She will not stop this. We give her attention she keeps it up, we ignore her she is hardly any different. What are we to do?