Oh Leasha I have totally been where you are now. It is totally normally. It's frustrating to feel like you're little more than boobs with a body attached. I went through days- and especially co-sleeping nights- where bub felt permanently attached and it irritated me to end. i wanted my space!! i am, as a general rule, a 'personal space' kind of person and it annoyed me to have to give that up. It began to effect my relationship with dh as well- I'd had enough of someone touching me all day without him doing it too.

This might not be a popular POV, but I think it is ok to refuse a feed every now and then, if you know they are not hungry and just sucking for comfort, and they don't get distressed. I found the older ds got the more 'distractable' he was and I could take his attention away from the boob with a toy or a book.

Hang in there hun, this too will pass. You are doing a fantastic job.