Thankyou ladies-

sarah.. a friend suggested i buy a watch that iw ear during the week and give to him to wear while he is there- i am going to try that and see if that helps.. he has his blanket and teddy for nap time- but they discourage the kids from bringing their own personal toys there as it can understandable cause some fights!!

Thankyou Janie... i know deep down he is just wanting some reassurance- but geeze the way he goes about getting it is REALLY getting to me!!!!!!!!!! And i try to make as much "him" time as i can but with a four month old it can be hard- and he picks the WORST times to play up!!!!!!

So i think i will still get them to at least call me and give me the option of coming to get him if he is upset- i would much rather know and have the option to come get him- i might also just get him earlier anyway even if he isnt upset and then gradually make it longer for him....

Thanks xxoo