Aaaaarghhhh! Oh, Nerdy Pants

I truly understand. Reading that, I felt really mad too. I know you've been having such a hard time with her lately. That must have been awful for you.

I really think she's reaching out to you with this behaviour. She needs your help to do the right thing. Is this something you can remind yourself when it happens? Think like a mantra of "She's doing this because she needs my help"

There's a great theory called the Circle of Security that explains this well. I'm not sure if there's a great website about it, but I'll have a look and get back to you. With more of these