This is a great thread.. My lists will be so eneven today (bad day!) but I'll give it a shot anyway..

SMUG:
1. DS is still demand feeding (even though I've had enough)
2. We co-sleep (& love it!)
3. DS knows he is loved and is very loving in return
4. DS loves reading because we've always read to him
5. I spend most of the day playing/talking with DS

CRAP
1. DS eats way too much chocolate
2. DS loves to watch tv way too much
3. I let DS watch tv to fall asleep if I'm too tired to bother
4. DS has been smacked too many times for my liking
5. DS is a very anti-social child and I blame myself for not "socialising" him younger (even though I think thats just him and it wouldn't have changed him)
6. Not being able to deal with DS tantrums in a calm manner
7. I yell at DS too much
8. I spend too much time online

I know there's a lot more but I've got a headache so Ill come back if I can think of anything else..