I don't feel any pressure at all. Hell no. But I'd be lying if I said I didn't buy things based on cute factor. I like to look good, and I like my kids to look good. DD has her own style, always has even at 2. When she was a baby I think I dressed her a lot daggier than she does herself now LOL. She's a bit of a fashionista. And I allow for stages... even when she went through the pink stage *shudder*. I will NEVER push my kids to dress the same as me. That doesn't mean that they don't imitate, I'm sure they do. But I grew up in a household where I was forced to wear certain things, and as a result I resented my wardrobe most of my life. And my mother was far from girly. And my father would have been happy if I was wearing a sack most of the time. I will always allow my children the freedom of choice, provided it's appropriate clothing.