I feel no pressure to dress DD "pretty" or DS "cool". I encourage them to define their own style, DD is quite at home wearing a dress as much as tracky daks and DS has a fondness for flennelet, as well as carrying my handbag for me.

I'm as open to DS wearing makeup as I am DD, when they are older.

I range from going all out with makeup and getting dressed to going out in "house" clothes and bare faced.

I don't feel pressure to dress any particular way I dress in what makes me happy, what puts a smile on my face and a spring in my step, don't care if it's "fashionable" acorrding to anyone else or not. And hopefully I can pass that on to my children.