I don't do fancy clothes or make up or jewelery and I think DD1 has picked up on it. I do look clean and presentable, but I go no further with either myself or DD1. She does get to play dress ups at home and I pay attention to what style she chooses. None of it is pink dresses, lol. But likewise, if "pretty" was her choice, I'd go with that too. As for headbands, I personally can't stand them!