Oh you poor thing!! A diet for a baby, seriously! She definitely doesn't sound that big to me - just healthy

We started giving DD cows milk (must be full cream, they need the fat) about a week after her first birthday. There is no need to continue with formula, cows milk and other dairy has everything they need. If your DD hasn't shown any adverse reactions to dairy then try switching her. We ran out of formula on holiday and I didn't want to buy another tin of formula so we went straight to cows milk full time and DD has never looked back. She loved it immediately and still does.

I would definitely try some more milk in the evening, especially if you're happy to continue not giving her milk in the middle of the day. One of the girls in my MG often has close to 500ml in the evening - it's just what she needs! Our DD usually has 200ml but sometimes it's less and sometimes it's more. If she finishes her bottle and is unsettled then she gets more. And like I said, she tells us very clearly when she's done

I forgot to mention in my other posts that on really hot days or wet days, we go to indoor playcentres. The toddler areas are usually great fun